Aug 8, 2020 · In general 4s would rather be themselves 9 would rather fit in. 4s understand who they are through emotions, 9 understand who they are through others. 4s are a part of the shame triad and 9s are a part of the anger/guilt triad. 4s accept their negatives yet find it hard to see their positives. 9s have a hard time accepting their negatives yet ...

Hello guys so Im a 9w8 and I feel like its time to change, so basically I want recommendations of books that helped you grow as 9's or just a book that you think helped you or u felt related to it, not necessarily a self help book like enneagram, I thought if five rings from miyamoto and things like that but I want to know if some of you have a book that you would recommend to a 9, I …

Sep 29, 2023 · A 9 considering 2 probably relates to their expressiveness, consideration and even self-aggrandizing to a degree, so feeling "small" won't be very familiar to them. 9s, on the other hand, can actually be quite callous about how they are impacting others emotionally if it's not something immediately obvious to them.

Mar 21, 2021 · Enneagram is less about fitting outward behaviors into a personality type and more about finding and understanding your own internal motivations, fundamental fears, and basic desires. A 9, at their core, strives for perfect harmony …

Jun 25, 2020 · Famously, the biggest difference between 4's and 9's is how we handle and process heavy emotions, particularly sadness. 4's are much more comfortable with our rocky emotional landscape than nearly any other type. 9's generally retreat to the safety and peace of their inner world and shut down when confronting difficult emotions, while 4's seek ...

Dec 30, 2020 · Yeah, I understand how you feel. I'm a 9 as well, and while I do get angry I don't consider myself an inherently angry person. I feel all of my emotions in my body, especially my gut. And that initial feeling doesn't always register to me as "like anger" but just a general fire burning in my gut.

Jun 19, 2021 · Trauma therapy and reading INFP and enneagram 9 books are helping so much with my emotional and mental development. Now my views of myself, others, and the world are finally coming together and I'm listening to politics and the news a bit more often to be more socially active when it comes to important issues.

Jun 10, 2019 · - 9's bury their anger in a hole and hide it incredibly well until- it gets let out. Like the chemical eruption of lava, 9's will explode and IT WILL SCARE YOU (probably, maybe not). I am. So. Sorry. We typically cool off pretty quickly. Just because a 9 apologizes RIGHT after an argument, doesn't mean that he or she isn't sincere.

Dec 13, 2020 · 9 Self-pres/Social This subtype is the most self-effacing of type Nine, possibly the least assertive of all the enneagram types. They can feel as though they have been looked over and passed by. While they do desire attention and recognition, with the sexual instinct last in the stacking, they seldom actively pursue it.

Jul 25, 2022 · The Enneagram is a model of the human psyche that is principally understood and taught as a typology of nine interconnected personality types. This community is temporarily set to private while the moderators work to ensure that content will be of the highest quality, and a safe experience for all community members.