I’ve long since rendered the verdict on myself: I’m guilty. Yes, guilty as charged, guilty in the first degree, guilty on all counts. All my life I’ve felt every inch the guilty party.

Instead of sounding happy to hear from you, they say in a biting tone, "Wow, nice to finally hear from you — good to know you could finally fit me into your busy schedule." This guilt trip may ...

We feel good doing good, that is, behaving in ways consistent with personal values and mores. When we violate values and mores we feel guilt, and if exposure is possible, shame. We’re not ...