"Does she not know our actual names?" the bride's cousin wrote on Reddit A woman says her cousin has left family members ...

After extending an invitation to him a few days ago, the bride received confirmation of his attendance shortly afterwards. One day ago, she received a weird Facebook message from him. "Thanks for ...

The OP then shared yet another "off-putting" detail about the shower invitation. "[It] had a note saying the bride only wanted cash. She did not include any kind of registry," she explained.